“Who are you?” I said to the robed young blonde laying on my couch. “I’m just here” she shrugged in response. “I’m calling Sean!” I proclaimed as I stormed out of my house in shock
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Quick backstory, I had been in an open marriage since 2008. I met Sean in 2011 and in 2014 we began a relationship where he agreed to certain boundaries which included no coworkers, use protection, don’t bring them home. He broke all those rules and lied about it
If it happened in November 12th 2015 then why write about it now? Why don’t I just get over it and move on? I question myself all the time. What would you do if you went to a work party in November 2021 and you found out coworkers were being told you’re a baby killer and in December 2021 she’s telling someone else that her back still hurts from a made-up assault from 2016? Wouldn’t you want to expose the lies? It reminds me of that meme going around about about how I was nice and nice and nice and nice again and now I’m a bitch. She chose to push and push and push and yeah I took the bait. Yeah multiple people I interviewed told me that she thrives on drama and I should just let it go and move on because this is exactly what she wants. When she posted this photo of them together after I was told for 8 months that he had never talked to her again I didn’t out her
Even when she shared my photos, name, and lies publicly I chose to not engage.
When She threated my children, still ignored her
When she sent me a message through a mutual friend in 2019 I also chose to ignore her
In 2020 when the boss was asking about an assault (Blog #3) that Crystal claims I did I made a facebook post about it which prompted another mutual friend to send me screen shots of a conversation they had in 2017
At that point I decided that I wanted to arm myself with the full knowledge of what transpired between the two of them because it was clear to me that this was the story she was telling people instead of the truth. I then took on an “if she does this I will do this” approach. I made several public posts eluding that I would post on www.shesahomewrecker.com if she persisted (I probably still will) but as I read the 2 years of messages between them l I realized that this is soooo much more than just an affair gone wrong, it deserved its own blog. I dropped hints about a blog, it wasn’t secret that I planned on doing this if she continued to lie about me. I was hoping by making public posts about her and with screen shots proving she was a liar she would move on but even in august 2022 she’s telling people that I’m a stalker and I can’t let go of something that happened 7 years ago. She could have just ignored that I was at the same bar as her and not even talked about me. I see no reason to send her friend over to confront my friend when I went to the bathroom. Some people don’t agree with me airing our dirty laundry but am I just to let her continue slandering me?
The purpose of the blog is to expose her for what she is. I’m not a doctor and I can’t diagnose anyone but if someone ever had Narcistic personality it is her. Referring to her as a narc or comparing her behavior as a narc is purely speculative. I literally saw her the other night at the bar with her new persona in action. It’s a shame she can’t act that good on stage because watching her entire demeaner change to be someone else is incredibly disturbing. Through my reading and interviews I have come to find that isn’t some isolated incident because I was standing in the way to her soulmate. Crystal makes enemies everywhere she goes. At first she’s on her best behavior, she’s humble and kind but slowly she targets enemies and soon all she does is bring everyone down with her drama. She’s a mean girl but she’s sneaky about it, she prefers to latch herself to someone else’s drama like a champion so she can attack but absolve herself from blame. She likes starting fights between people because she feeds on drama. I believe she will continue to be this way no matter how many bridges she burns, she’ll just create new socials and rebrand herself to align herself to her new target. I want people to know how she treats people; I know there’s a few people who are very glad I am writing this because in a way it gives them a voice too. There will be a blog about some of the things she’s done to actively hurt others or how she used them. For example, joining a church when you claim to be a witch because you want to now claim to be a good christian woman and wearing a cross for photos. She used that church and lied so she could post stuff like this
This blog is not to attack the affair although I will be making posts about how I felt at the time and what reading the messages years later did to me. I understand that Sean chose to go replacement shopping and that she had no loyalty to me as a fellow human being. I even felt kind of bad for her as I read MONTHS of DAILY desperate pleas for his total love and devotion. Even though he did sting her along and play mind games she chose to hold on to hope so that’s on her. I’m not here to slut shame or any of that, she has plenty to be ashamed about as it is. I can also understand why he did it which made it easy to forgive him because of our unorthodox relationship dynamic. I will have post about polyamory as I am a married woman but Sean agreed to certain boundaries when we entered into an open relationship, I do consider the year of lies as well as breaking all three boundaries to be cheating. I don’t care about what happened in 2015/2016 but I do care about the lies that are being told now. This blog started out as a way to defend myself but it’s really so much more.
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